If you’ve read my story of heartbreak, being broke and earning my riches, then you’ll know I love the word “No”. It’s been the single most important word to help me grow my net-worth and self-worth, which has really helped me create so many boundaries with my money. Seriously.
In interviews and other blog posts scattered throughout, you would have probably read (or heard that) that I equate enforcing boundaries with my money to helping me better my money situation. It’s not a hard thing to do, it’s just that people make it out to be more complicated than it has to be.
When we think of the word ‘boundaries’, we think it’s this really mean thing they we do to shut people off. When I started creating more boundaries in my life, I felt like I was being really selfish, like I didn’t deserve to tell people what wanted.
I want to tell you right now that it’s ok to be selfish. Thinking about yourself and what’s in your best interest will only make you happier. Actually, it’ll make the people around you a lot happier.